The Stories We Weave
If you know me and most of you do, you’re well versed in my mantra of “what are you telling yourself?” and “Is this true?” In order to move forward with emotional happiness and stability in life, we must be willing to live in the present. We must be willing to re-frame the narrative we have each created for ourselves. This narrative is our story and it’s only our story. It’s not our mother’s, father’s, friend’s, boyfriend’s, husband’s, wife’s, or anyone else’s, it’s our personal story that we have created and scripted. This means that only you can change your story. No one, absolutely no one, can do that for you. We create this story (remember it’s our...
Do You Avoid Conflict? Really?
What do we tell ourselves about resolving conflict? Often what I find is people tell themselves that “if I avoid the conflict, things will heal on their own.” “If I give it some more time, it will go away.” This is avoidance and avoidance will not resolve the problem. It may seem more comfortable for the time being, but ultimately results in prolonged emotional distress and issues. Other forms of conflict resolution include competing, accommodating, collaborating, and compromising. Competing is a power oriented mode in which the individual pursues his or her personal concerns at the others expense using whatever power seems appropriate to win their position. This may include threats, warnings, and other uncooperative stances. In other words,...
I.O.U.S.A.
This video is the trailer for a great documentary on the US’s addiction to debt. There’s also a great 30 minute preview on youtube.
OUR DEFENSE AGAINST SATAN
John 8:44 The devil . . . does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. Whenever he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own nature; for he is a liar, and the father of lies Satan’s power is in the lie. He has no power over you except what you given him when you believe his lies. You break his power when you expose the lie. Scripture says, “We know that we are of God, and the whole world lies in the power of the evil one” (1 John 5:19). How much deception is actually going on in Christians today I can only speculate. Many Christians I talk to struggle with oppressive thoughts, but they are afraid to tell anyone for fear that others will think they have a mental problem. Seldom do they realize that these distractions reflect the...
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