Commitment-Successful marriages are built on an unwavering commitment that husband and wife make to each other and to God. Without deep commitment, a deceptive, soft, comforting voice may begin playing in the background of our often unconscious self talk that grows louder and more prominent when troubles come (and they will surely come). The self talk goes something like this; “if this doesn’t work out, I can always find someone else.” “I’m not appreciated or valued in this relationship so I’ll find someone who will offer me more happiness.” “You never show me any attention.” The muffled volume of background self-talk sound more subtle in the beginning, but creates a potentially dangerous crack which widens over time and weakens the foundation of a healthy marriage relationship. There must be a deep, illuminating resolve within each individual, regardless of the obstacles confronted as a couple, that says “we will face this together and we will work it out”.
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